Sports Performance Therapist | Athletes & High Achievers | Los Angeles, CA
I work with athletes and high achievers who look like they have it together but feel anxious, depleted, and stuck. Together we slow it down, find the pattern, and build mental strength that lasts — and shows up in your performance and results.
LGBTQ+ affirming and identity-safe space
What If Nerves Didn’t Run the Show?
“It’s not the mountain we conquer, but ourselves.””
In yourself :
∙ You’re replaying every mistake long after the game is over
∙ You’re exhausted but can’t shut your mind off at night
∙ Your body is trained but your confidence is inconsistent and unpredictable
∙ You’re succeeding on paper but something feels off and you can’t name it
In your performance :
∙ You’re physically ready but mentally you freeze under pressure
∙ Confidence disappears exactly when you need it most
∙ Fear of messing up is louder than your training
∙ Competition feels overwhelming instead of exciting and you don’t know why
“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
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In your relationships:
∙ You feel misunderstood by the people closest to you
∙ The pressure from coaches, teammates, family, or a partner is bleeding into everything
∙ You’re avoiding conflict because you’re already running on empty
∙ You’re losing yourself trying to meet everyone else’s expectations
““It is not the strength of the body that counts, but the strength of the spirit.””
Couples Therapist for the Over-Thinkers, the Over-Achievers in Los Felix, Los Angeles, California
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Couples Therapist for the Over-Thinkers, the Over-Achievers in Los Felix, Los Angeles, California *
Hi, I’m Amelia — Sports Performance Therapist & Relationship Specialist in Los Feliz, LA
I train my clients in what I call Relationship Fitness — building the mental and emotional resilience that makes you stronger in competition, in relationships, and in life.
I work with athletes and high achievers who are successful and driven — but secretly exhausted. You have the hard skills. I’m here to build the soft skills that make your life actually feel the way you thought it would at this point
I’ve spent 10 years plus in the fitness industry, as a personal trainer and studio owner. I understand the culture, the pressure, and the identity that comes with being an athlete. I’m not a therapist who nods politely while you explain what a PR is. I speak your language — and I bring clinical tools that actually move the needle.
∙ Get clarity on what’s blocking your performance
∙ Build emotional tools that translate into competition
∙ Strengthen the relationships that affect your game
∙ Create a career and life your future self will thank you for
Services — What I Can Help With
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Sports & Performance Therapy
For athletes dealing with performance anxiety, injury recovery, burnout, identity transitions, and the mental side of competition.
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Disordered Eating & Body Image
For athletes and individuals addressing their relationship with food, body, and performance.
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OCD Informed Treatment
For individuals managing intrusive thoughts, compulsive patterns, and anxiety-driven behaviors.
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Couples Therapy
For driven couples navigating conflict, disconnection, and the pressure that high-achieving relationships carry.
REASONS IT’S HARD TO START
What makes it hard to reach out
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Sessions are remote and built around your training schedule. If you can fit in film review, you can fit in this.
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You invest in your body every day. This is the same investment, for what’s underneath it.
There are options: weekly, bi-monthly or even monthly. Something is better than nothing and support comes in many shapes and forms.
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Not every therapist fits every athlete. A free consult lets us find out if we’re the right match.
Schedule a free consultation to explore whether we would be a good fit.
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Being independent is a strength - but everyone benefits from perspective, support, and tools to manage life’s challenges. The best athletes in the world have coaches. This is no different.
It can feel like a “failure” to seek professional assistance, in reality it is being brave enough to seek support and take yourself and relationship to somewhere it has not been before.
If it was easy, everyone would do it. If it was possible, you would have already done it. I have the same feelings, it is so beauitfully human to feel isolated and need to do things on your own. We thrive with support.
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It’s normal to fear difficult conversations. But uncovering issues with guidance can strengthen trust and connection. Therapy will go at the pace that feels right for you.
What People Are Saying
You’ve put in the physical work.
Now let’s build what’s underneath it.
You can take the next step.
Call and/or leave your contact information. We will find out if we are the right fit. Whether it is me or another clinical in my network, I am here to point you in the helpful direction. I have found that reaching out is the hardest part. So let me make it easy for you.